I think my Ben has

Asd , Autism Spectrum Disorder as some of you all know still not been diagnosed yet keep saying Global Delay and weak joints in legs and speech etc i been reading up on Asd what it says lot Ben does not getting anywhere with Ben's doctor at his Clinc still wont Access him stressing and getting so upset over it so i read up go go through GP doctor and ask to be referred to be accessed if no go then privately do it keep saying Ben is too young i keep hearing from loads of people Ben is not too young to be accessed he is 4yrs i gonna call Ben's HV next week ask for help feel not getting anyway for help get him diagnosed really upsetting me so much would understand the high pitch screeching and screaming flapping of his arms etc and his speech and the way he does things etc